Darlin'

Album: We All Grow Up (2024)
Charted: 52
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Songfacts®:

  • "Darlin'" is a hard-hitting country track by Chase Matthew where he tackles suspicions of infidelity with an unapologetic directness. Released as the lead single from his third EP, We All Grow Up, in February 2024, the song was his second song to reach the Hot 100, after "Love You Again."
  • The premise is simple enough: Matthew confronts a partner whose "friend" seems to know a little too much about her life - her family, her car, her secrets - and, most damningly, calls her "darlin'."
  • Matthew wrote the song during a spontaneous writing session while he was touring in Montana with his band. Rather than return to Nashville for just three days between shows, he set up a mobile studio in a casino hotel suite with his guitarist Ciaran Wilkie and lighting tech Hunter Huff. The three jammed out a rough skeleton of the track, which was later refined with songwriter Alex Maxwell back in Nashville. Maxwell has been integral to Matthew's sound development, serving as both co-writer and producer on multiple tracks from the We All Grow Up EP.
  • There's a personal edge to all this. In a 2025 interview, Matthew revealed that "me and the guys, we were out on the road having fun and I think I was a little concerned about what was going on back home with a girl at the time I was with." He started piecing together clues about what was happening back home with his then-girlfriend, and "Darlin'" spilled out of that worry.
  • The track's backbone comes from an instrumental by UK producer Jake Angel Beats, who previously helmed NBA YoungBoy's 2022 single "Letter to Big Dump." It's not every day you hear Leeds, England, cross-pollinating with Nashville heartbreak, but country music has always borrowed freely; remember when Florida Georgia Line roped in Nelly for "Cruise"?
  • The music video, directed by Matthew's longtime collaborator Wes Webb, leans into the revenge angle. Matthew discovers infidelity through social media, then retaliates by recording a performance of the song in his garage. The shoot came together in 12 hours flat, with crew members pressed into service and two women recruited on the spot from a local gas station. Shot on a random Tuesday night, it has the same scrappy immediacy that fueled the writing of the song.

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