Better Be Home Soon

Album: Temple of Low Men (1988)
Charted: 42
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Songfacts®:

  • This is one of those songs that sounds very sweet until you really listen to the lyric. Written by Crowded House lead singer Neil Finn, the chorus is irresistibly singable:

    I know I'm right
    For the first time in my life
    That's why I tell you
    You'd better be home soon


    A touching sentiment, right? Well, a listen to the verses reveals why he wants her home soon: They're on the outs, and he's ready to leave. It gets kind of harsh:

    Stripping back the coats
    Of lies and deception
    Back to nothingness
    Like a week in the desert


    Neil Finn had been married to his wife Sharon for five years by this point. He's famously dedicated to his family (his sons Elroy and Liam later joined the band), so Crowded House fans often hear this as a song about missing someone who has been on the road, but many of Neil's songs aren't personal in nature. And he's happy to let us interpret the song any way we'd like.
  • "Better Be Home Soon" is a live favorite for the band, despite the sentiment revealed in the lyric. "It's the song in a Crowded House set that people can sing from beginning to end very easily, in a group context, community singing and all that," Neil Finn explained on his website. "That's always been a pretty important thing for us."
  • This was the first single from Crowded House's second album, Temple Of Low Men, released in 1988. They were still a three-piece at this point, with bass player Nick Seymour and former Split Enz members Neil Finn (vocals, guitar) and Paul Hester (drums). They got a lot of help from their producer, Mitchell Froom, who played the organ on this one.

    Their self-titled debut album, released in 1986, had a huge hit with "Don't Dream It's Over" and earned them a very wide fanbase around the globe. The Temple Of Low Men album didn't do so well in America but solidified their fanbase with well-crafted songs that held up to repeated listening.
  • Neil Finn spoke about the malleable nature of this song in a 2021 interview with Apple Music. "I'm quite happy to have songs that are open-ended enough to lend themselves to any occasion," he said. "And that song has indeed been embraced by people who have been homesick, embraced by people who have separated from their loved ones, embraced by people who have just fallen in love. There's something about the fact it's a little open-ended that enables that song."
  • Alex Proyas, who also helmed Fleetwood Mac's "Everywhere" and Sting's "All This Time," directed the video, which finds the band playing a theater that is reveled to be a miniature world. Crowded House had aged out of MTV by this point, but fortunately there was the more adult-oriented VH1, which have it plenty of airplay.
  • Neil Finn sang this with just his acoustic guitar at the 2015 ARIA Awards in memory of Paul Hester, who died by suicide earlier that year at 46.

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