The Way You Love Me

Album: Breathe (2000)
Charted: 15 7
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Songfacts®:

  • "The Way You Love Me" is a breezy, upbeat country-pop track released in 2000 as the second single from Faith Hill's fourth album, Breathe. The song is an ode to the delight of being loved so thoroughly that you wish your partner could see themselves the way you do.
  • The tune was written by Keith Follesé (Lonestar's "Smile," Tim McGraw's "Something Like That") and Michael Dulaney (Jason Aldean's "Night Train," Joe Nichols' "Sunny and 75"). The pair had never met before the writing session. Follesé was coaching the son of Dulaney's publisher in Little League when fate (and the publisher's matchmaking instincts) intervened. The two met for lunch first (songwriters' speed-dating, essentially) to clear away any awkwardness. "You walk in, meet a stranger, shut the door, and hopefully a song comes out," Dulaney told The Tennessean. That day, it certainly did.
  • Follesé admits he was nervous, so nervous in fact that the song kept changing keys - he just kept writing, second-guessing himself. When he got home, he told his wife, "I either wrote one of the best songs we ever wrote or the worst thing I've ever done." Fortunately for him, Faith Hill's recording proved it was the former.

    Follesé noted the unique concept: he'd never heard a song about loving the way someone else loves you. Simple, yes, but fresh.
  • Produced by Hill with Byron Gallimore (Tim McGraw's longtime collaborator), the track mixes traditional country instrumentation with pop gloss, and, in a daring move for the time, even includes a touch of Auto-Tune on the background vocals. That little bit of vocal wizardry would quietly ripple through the genre, showing future country-pop stars that polish wasn't a dirty word.
  • Released on Valentine's Day 2000 - a date too perfect to be coincidental - the single flew up the charts, spending four weeks at #1 on the Country chart and reaching #6 on the Billboard Hot 100. Overseas, it also made waves, cracking the Top 15 in the UK and reaching the Top 10 in Spain and Hungary. A club-ready remix by Love to Infinity gave the track an extra pop punch, making it one of Hill's most versatile hits.
  • "The Way You Love Me" became a landmark of Faith Hill's crossover moment, paving the way for artists like Carrie Underwood and Taylor Swift to make country-pop a global export. It remains one of Hill's most popular songs, up there with "Breathe" and "This Kiss."

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