I'm A Man

Album: The Collective (2024)
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  • I'm a man. Don't make me hide

    These words pulse over a muscular, bass-heavy rhythm as Kim Gordon dives into the murky waters of modern masculinity. Inspired by Republican politician Josh Hawley's complaints about feminism, Gordon examines this blinkered view of manhood. "He goes around whining about feminism and saying how it's destroyed men," she explained to UK newspaper The Sun. "The whining aspect and them feeling like victims was interesting to me. What does it really sound like if you say these things out loud? There's so many subtleties and grey areas to this whole discussion."

    Gordon's musings wander back to the era when cowboys rode in to save the day and Ronald Reagan championed traditional values. "After that era of Reagan and Nancy, and conservativism, what was left? Men felt lost and so they became consumers, like women they are marketed to. The song is about how masculinity changed."
  • "I'm A Man" explores the anxieties of a man who feels lost and unfulfilled. "Don't call me toxic, just 'cause I like your butt," Gordon talk-sings, touching on the fragile line men walk between desire and "toxic masculinity."

    She reflected to Uncut magazine on how the TV series Mad Men showed this lost male identity, symbolized by the falling man in a suit. "They don't know what their role is, so they just became consumers, like women, and were marketed to. But it's also me pretending to take on the right-wing point of view that feminism ruined men."
  • The song also plays with gender norms. "Manicure my nails, put on a skirt," Gordon chants, questioning whether modern gender fluidity is revolutionary.

    "Is it groundbreaking that Harry Styles wears a skirt?" she asked The Sun. "Mick Jagger wore a dress in 1968 and David Bowie was always individual. It's like Harry Styles got a new stylist that gave his career a boost. This new fluidity and dressing are great. But men who identify as kind of old school, they may not like it and for them to object to it could be closing doors, which maybe they should open."
  • Gordon produced "I'm A Man" with Justin Raisen, who also accompanied her on her 2019 debut solo album, No Home Record.

    "Justin Raisen, my collaborator and producer, makes beats for people [he has worked with Charli XCX, Drake, and Lil Yachty], so it was a no-brainer to ask him," she said. "I've always been interested in beats for my vocals because I'm limited in my way of singing; it's not really melody-driven. Rhythm is what gets my brain going. And Justin knows my sensibility."
  • The evocative music video stars Kim Gordon along with her daughter Coco Gordon Moore, exploring similar themes of masculinity and femininity through contrasting imagery. Directed by filmmaker Alex Ross Perry, known for the films Listen Up Philip and Her Smell, the visuals capture Gordon's complex narrative on modern gender roles and identity.

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