I Keep Forgettin' (Every Time You're Near)

Album: If That's What It Takes (1982)
Charted: 43 4
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Songfacts®:

  • An '80s classic and one of Michael McDonald's signature songs, "I Keep Forgettin'" puts a new spin on heartbreak. The song is about a guy who is struggling to accept that his relationship has ended, and doesn't understand why. He fights his emotions every time he sees his former lover, and he keeps forgetting they're no longer in love.
  • "I Keep Forgettin'" is based on a 1962 song with that title that was written by the legendary songwriting team of Jerry Leiber and Mike Stoller, and was originally recorded by the R&B singer Chuck Jackson in 1962. This original version went to #55 in the US.

    McDonald put together a new version of Jackson's song with Ed Sanford of the Sanford-Townsend Band ("Smoke From A Distant Fire"). Their version isn't really a cover - it has different lyrics and a different arrangement, but it uses the title along with the vocal melody and concept in the chorus. Jackson's original goes, "I keep forgetting you don't love me no more." McDonald's is "I keep forgettin' we're not in love anymore." In both songs, the singers go on to list things they keep forgettin'.

    Jackson's version was produced by Leiber and Stoller in a style they developed with The Coasters, incorporating timbales, a tuba, and some kind of mallet instrument into the mix. Jackson's vocal is very punctuated and pronounced as opposed to McDonald, who glides through the song.

    McDonald's version includes the subtitle "(Every Time You're Near)." The credited songwriters on the single and album are listed as McDonald and Ed Sanford, but the publishing shows the credits going to Leiber and Stoller. Streaming services often list all four as credited writers. According to Mike Stoller, a deal was worked out before McDonald's song was released.
  • "I Keep Forgettin'" was Michael McDonald's first single as a solo artist. He came to Los Angeles in the early '70s set on becoming a solo artist, but he ended up joining bands instead. His big break came in 1974 when he started touring and recording with Steely Dan as a backup singer and keyboard player. The following year he joined the Doobie Brothers, bringing them into a new era with smoothed-out songs like "What A Fool Believes" and "Takin' It To the Streets." When the Doobies broke up in 1982, McDonald went solo. "I Keep Forgettin'" was a big hit and showed he could go it alone, but he gravitated toward collaborations. A few years later he had big hits with the James Ingram duet "Yah Mo B There" and with Patti LaBelle on "On My Own." He was also a popular backup singer around this time.

    McDonald later revealed that he struggled with addiction throughout the '80s and didn't get sober until the late '90s. He was part of various Doobie Brothers reunions and was inducted into the Rock And Roll Hall Of Fame with them in 2020.
  • Michael's sister Maureen sang backup on this one. The McDonald's were a musical family, with father Bob a talented singer.
  • The groove on this track is mellow gold spun from the finest session players of the era. Here's the lineup:

    Michael McDonald - electric piano, synthesizer
    Steve Lukather - guitar
    Greg Phillinganes - clavinet
    Louis Johnson - bass
    Jeff Porcaro - drums

    Lukather and Porcaro were members of Toto; Porcaro helped McDonald land his gig with Steely Dan back in 1974. Phillinganes and Johnson played on many of Michael Jackson's hits.
  • Chuck Jackson's version was covered more faithfully by The Checkmates Ltd. in 1969, David Bowie in 1984, and Joe Cocker in 2005.
  • Warren G and Nate Dogg sampled the groove to "I Keep Forgettin'" on their 1994 hit "Regulate," a hip-hop classic that showed how melodic songs from yesteryear could be reworked and transformed. The effect is striking: "Regulate" tells a story of robbery and retribution.

    Warren's parents played him "I Keep Forgettin'" when he was a kid, and he loved the song. When he started making music, he decided to sample it. "I wanted to do something different instead of the same old hip-hop," he told Buzzfeed. "I thought, 'why don't I take a song that I liked from back then and recreate it in hip hop style?'"
  • Michael McDonald didn't join Twitter until later, but a spoof account posted this Tweet in 2013, which got a laugh: "I keep forgettin' where I put my keys."
  • Michael McDonald titled his 2024 memoir What A Fool Believes. He wrote it with the actor/comedian Paul Reiser.

Comments: 8

  • Seventh Mist from 7th HeavenThis song was a hit during my first year working at an electronics store and it played frequently. I really liked Maureen McDonald’s voice and would have liked to have heard her on other songs.
  • Michael from Maine, UsaI have heard the Song forever and I like it. Just watched the 'Official' Video (I might have seen it before) but the (SO Much Hair) Blonde woman at the End of the video looks crazily Familiar, does anyone know who she is, what else she's acted in?? Like so Many Early videos Actors took the job, then went on to do So much more...
  • Michael from Portland, OrJulia Fordham isn't Canadian. She is from the UK and has lived in the US (Los Angeles) for the past couple of decades.
  • Barry from Sauquoit, NyOn August 26th 1962, the original version of "I Keep Forgettin'" " by the Chuck Jackson entered Billboard's Hot Top 100 at position #95; and on September 16th, 1962 it peaked at #55 {for 1 week} and spent 7 weeks on the Top 100...
    Between 1961 and 1968 he had eighteen Top 100 records; with "Any Day Now (My Wild Beautiful Bird)" being his biggest hit, it peaked at #23 {for 2 weeks} on June 17th, 1962 {it reached #2 on Billboard's R&B Singles chart}...
    He made the Top 100 chart five more times in duets with Maxine Brown...
    Personally, his debut record, “I Don’t Want To Cry”, it my favorite...
    Mr. Jackson celebrated his 77th birthday just over a month ago on July 22nd {2014}.
  • Barry from Sauquoit, NyOn August 1st 1982, "I Keep Forgettin' (Every Time You're Near)" by Michael McDonald entered Billboard's Hot Top 100 chart at position #69; and on October 17th, 1982 it peaked at #4 {for 3 weeks} and spent 19 weeks on the Top 100.It reached #7 on Billboard's R&B chart.
  • Camille from Toronto, OhUgh. Sorry, but I just don't care for a single song I've ever heard Michael McDonald sing. Just can't get in to his voice.
  • Randy from Albuquerque, NmI think the woman in the song is married. They had an affair, but "it's gone too far." She ended the relationship because she never wants to "live a lie." He understands, saying, "You don't have to tell me why you're gone," but he's heartbroken because "this is what's real. This is what's true."
  • Sara from Silver Spring, MdMichael McDonald recently sang backup on a cover version for Canadian singer Julia Fordham. His Motown and Soul Speak producer gave him a tape of her doing it at a concert. But no one can do it as well as Michael!
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