Don't Ruin Flowers

Album: yet to be titled (2025)
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Songfacts®:

  • "Don't Ruin Flowers" is Tenille Arts drawing a hard line after a breakup: she's done with grand gestures and refuses to let something beautiful like flowers get tainted by insincere apologies.
  • The emotionally charged ballad is about the tension between real remorse and empty, performative gestures after trust has been broken. Arts uses flowers as a boundary line; she'll let the ex "ruin" dive bars, summers, tequila and old Chesney songs, but not the one symbol that still feels pure to her.

    Arts described the song as drawn from a personal breakup where apologies kept arriving in bouquets, but she has not identified the person the song is about.

    "'Don't Ruin Flowers' came at a time when I thought I had written every feeling of a breakup, and then this one hit me with a mix of sadness and strength," she said. "I think protecting beautiful things in your life is so important and flowers became the physical representation of that for me at a time when someone in my life was using flowers in place of apologies."
  • Arts also framed the song as a lesson in selective emotional preservation; learning to give up the things that don't matter in order to fiercely guard what still holds meaning. That theme surfaced again in a tongue-in-cheek but pointed Instagram post where Arts warned: "In your 20s there will be a man who tries to use flowers as an apology. It's very important you don't let him ruin flowers for you. And in my case, it's important to write a song about it."
  • Tenille Arts wrote the song with Lydia Sutherland and the track's producer, Ryan Kohn. It is Arts' first released song with this particular writing/production team.

    Lydia Sutherland is a Montreal-raised country-pop singer-songwriter who also worked on Jake Davey's "Ends With Y," which hit #1 on the Australian iTunes country chart.

    Ryan Kohn is a songwriter/producer originally from Cleveland who has also worked with the likes of Ashley Anne and Emmy Moyen.
  • The "Don't Ruin Flowers" music video was directed and shot by Joey Brodnax in Spring Hill, Tennessee. Nashville-based director Joey Brodnax' other credits include multiple videos for Briston Maroney and a run of indie visualizer projects with the Live2 creative collective.

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