Sometimes You Can't Make It On Your Own
by U2

Album: How To Dismantle An Atomic Bomb (2004)
Charted: 1 97
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  • Tough, you think you've got the stuff
    You're telling me and anyone
    You're hard enough

    You don't have to put up a fight
    You don't have to always be right
    Let me take some of the punches
    For you tonight

    Listen to me now
    I need to let you know
    You don't have to go it alone

    And it's you when I look in the mirror
    And it's you when I don't pick up the phone
    Sometimes you can't make it on your own

    We fight all the time
    You and I, that's alright
    We're the same soul
    I don't need, I don't need to hear you say
    That if we weren't so alike
    You'd like me a whole lot more

    Listen to me now
    I need to let you know
    You don't have to go it alone

    And it's you when I look in the mirror
    And it's you when I don't pick up the phone
    Sometimes you can't make it on your own

    Say, say, say

    I know that we don't talk
    I'm sick of it all
    Can you hear me when I
    Sing, you're the reason I sing
    You're the reason why the opera is in me

    We're here
    I've still got to let you know
    A house doesn't make a home
    Don't leave me here alone

    And it's you when I look in the mirror
    And it's you that makes it hard to let go
    Sometimes you can't make it on your own
    Sometimes you can't make it
    Best you can do is to fake it
    Sometimes you can't make it on your own Writer/s: Adam Clayton, Dave Evans, Larry Mullen, Paul Hewson
    Publisher: CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Reservoir Media Management, Inc., Universal Music Publishing Group
    Lyrics licensed and provided by LyricFind

Comments: 23

  • Karen Prince from Essex A million % Bono its a very powerful song ... like all of your songs! They have inspired me to see the love light peace on my own journey trying my best to spread this vision but some spirts are lost and some cannot be saved or helped which makes me feel quit sad... But nothing will stop me believing in me and my beautiful heart. I will endeavour to keep your music very close to my heart forever.... its magical to me. Kindness and blessings always.
  • Pj from Dublin, IrelandI remember the saying "listen to me now" was comonly used by Irish parents especialy mine...when as a kid they would be lecturing or telling me off about something...,they would say "Listen to me now" before Blah .Blah.Blah,,,, that would be most people of my generations experience here ..,when you heard those words you knew ,,,oh oh ,,,in trouble here..............Thats where those words in the song come from......
  • Izzy from Dexter, MiEvery time I listen to this song I think of how I would feel if someone I loved deeply had died. I can always picture myself singing it for them. It makes me realize how pointless my life would be without them.
  • Kate from Burnaby, CanadaI once sang this song for my partner during kareoke night. As much as I love him, he's extremely independant. I wanted to reach him. It worked. :)
  • Aaron from Manistee, MiDidnt The Joshua Tree have two number 1s?
  • Uzoma from Kano, Otheri use to imagine making the video of the song, i can make many with fine touch. u2 are the best.
    -uzoma, nigeria
  • Nichole from Terrace, Canadai love this song and always will it has so much meaning for me. i was friends with this guy for over a year (friends as in sometimes a little more) we really liked eachother alot but him and his wife were separated not yet divorced. we were so close to eachother and i member being on the phone with him and watching much music when i first heard this song and that was the day he first told me he loved me. we're not together any more after 2 years, we talk every now and again but looking back on our time together makes me happy. always and forever i'll love him. why regret something that once made you happy
  • B from GlascowTo me, this song is about loving someone very deeply and wanting to help them, but feeling powerless to do so. My mother has had chronic depression for awhile now and every time I hear this song it makes me want to help her so much but I can't because she has to help herself. Thankyou Bono for a beautiful piece of music and a little insight into your emotions.
  • Asd from Asd, MoI don't need, I don't need to hear you say
    That if we weren't so alike
    you'd like me a whole lot more

    Honestly I think these words are the most sensitive and strongest emotionally since "My hands are tied, my body's bruised. You got me with nothing to win and nothing left to lose" (With or Without You)
  • Leon from Waterbury, CtI heard that, a first, Bono wrote this as a very personal piece for himself and his father's funeral, that he didn't really want to include on Atomic Bomb. But Edge read the lyrics and encouraged him otherwise. I don't know if it's true or not...
  • Dan from Lee, NhThe Radio ruined this song, it's so unfair.
  • James from Sydney, AustraliaBono often quotes his dad on the vertigo tour, stating "Whenever I met up with my father at a pub or something, he would always say the same thing to me; Take those f*cking glasses off!" and states before he sings it "My father, would have loved to be, in show business"
  • Acrobat from Adelaide, AustraliaBob Hewson shut down a lot, so I take it from things I have read after Bono's mother, bobo's wife Iris died when Bono was a teenager. This is also why he and bono were never very close. Bono has mentioned many times in interviews, after his mother died, the home became only a house. Thus the line in the song...
  • Emily from Abingdon, VaWhen they perform this on tour Bono removes his sunglasses in honor of his father, who didn't approve of him wearing them all the time.
  • Scott from Sydney, AustraliaThe part where Bono sings "Your the reason why the opera is in me", Bono believes that after someone close to you dies, they leave something for you, and in this case his father left him his big voice. I'd say that is why Bono sounds alot better on this album than any other
  • Teddy from Brooklyn, Nythe music video starts off with some text saying "My father Bob worked in the post office by day and sang opera by night. We lived on the north side of Dublin in a place called Cedarwood Road (?). He had a lot of attitude. He gave some to me - and a voice. i wish I'd known him better -- Bono
  • Angela from Hagerstown, MdWell, it's a single in the US now.
  • Bethan from Somerset, Uk.Reached #1 on the UK Singles Chart. This was a new first for U2, as it's the only time they have had two #1 singles from one album, the previous #1 being Vertigo in November 2004.
  • James from Westchester, England"And it's you when I don't pick up the phone..."

    Hmm. Was his dad prone to depressive episodes where he shut the rest of the world out?
  • Matthew Doroshow from Philadelphia, PaThis song came out during the time my grandfather was slowly
    passing away. He was a very proud man, but due to cancer, did
    not have the dignified death he would have wanted. This song
    always made me think of him, and still does. One of my favorite U2 songs.
  • Samuel from Belfast, IrelandHi, I've played this song more times than enough, and cry half the time, being that it's so emotional.

    My father passed away just over two years ago, I miss him dearly, and to be honest this song is tribute to all fathers out there that have died.

    Bono will share a pint of astral guiness with his dad some day for composing this song :)
  • Amanda-jane from Ayr, ScotlandI love U2 because they are an amazing band and i think that i lot of credit should go to Bono because it must be so hard to even sing that song because it must mean so much to him.
  • Laura from Newcastle, Australiathis was used on an epsiode in the second season of THE OC. after all of U2's new stuff this century this song is my favourite! it reminds me of there old stuff from the joshua tree- there better stuff- not totally discarding there other material. this song is real and true and that is why i respect U2 so much as a band.
    Laura, Newcastle, Australia.
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