Drowning

Album: Famous Friends (2019)
Charted: 109
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Songfacts®:

  • In this ballad, Chris Young sings of his overwhelming grief following the loss of a dear friend.

    I can't help that all I think about is
    How you were taken way too soon
    It ain't the same here without you
    I gotta say missin' you comes and waves
    And tonight I'm drowning


    Young laments that his pal was taken away far too soon.
  • Young wrote "Drowning" with frequent collaborators Josh Hoge ("Losing Sleep") and Corey Crowder ("Raised on Country"). In a press release, Young explained that they were each thinking of "someone that we lost way too soon." For him, that was his best friend Adam, who died as a result of a car accident.
  • Chris Young debuted this song at the Grand ole Opry on June 10, 2019. Near the end of his stirring performance the emotions hit Young like a wave. He was overcome, and despite the crowd's encouragement, couldn't finish the tune.
  • Corey Crowder's songwriting session with Josh Hoge and Chris Young took place on December 5, 2017. In the morning prior to their get-together, he had heard someone mention during a broadcast how the emotions from a breakup come in waves.

    "I was kind of sitting there reflecting on it," he recalled to Billboard. "It hit me that that would be a crazy way to write a song about death, because if missing you comes in waves, then I'm drowning. The image hit me like a giant wave crushing you."

    Crowder suggested the idea when Hoge and Young arrived at his studio and each proceeded to draw on their own stories of loss: Young and Hoge recalled friends who had died young; Crowder channeled his mom's thoughts about her own deceased mother.
  • The song deals with the grief that comes with losing someone important in your life. The three made the lyrics personal enough for Young to sing about his loss, but also open-ended enough that listeners could apply their own stories to it. "It's just vague enough to where it could be applicable to whatever your specific scenario was," Crowder told Billboard.
  • Young directed the personal music video alongside Jeff Johnson (" Hangin' On"). The clip opens with the singer holding up a picture of his late friend, Adam Carnes. As the clip continues, shots of Young performing "Drowning" are interspersed with fans who attended Young's Richmond, Virginia Raised on Country tour stop holding out photos of the ones they're missing.

    The performance footage was filmed at MGM Grand Garden Arena in Las Vegas. It was Young's first headlining show in the city since the 2017 Route 91 shooting. Fans were asked to light up their phones during his performance in honor of the victims and survivors of the tragic event.

Comments: 4

  • Megan Arling from Deshler OhioThe song drowning reminds me of my brother stephen arling that killed him self back in 2017. I miss him so much.
  • Eliza P from Baraboo, WiIt makes me think of my friends Faith Woods and Adlai Estes who both died as a result of a car accident my junior, my friend Jordi's freshman year of high school. They were both 17, so they were seniors last school year and October 29th of this year was one year since Adlai passed away because he died at the scene of the car accident. Faith died the day afterwords because of her injuries. Miss you guys, you guys would've been proud of me for becoming a senior in high school.
  • Charleen from MassachusettsA beautiful song. Has help me and others so much!
  • J. Castle from St.louis I lost my youngest brother in a car accident in 2005 he was 22. This song hits home and I appreciate Chris Young for helping us out with a fantastic song
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