Extreme Occident

Album: Madame X (2019)
Play Video

Songfacts®:

  • "Extreme Occident" finds Madonna trying to discover her place in this world:

    I was right, and I've got the right
    To choose my own life like a full circle


    The singer has been defiant all her life, unwilling to bend to the way society tries to mold her.
  • Madonna sings on the chorus:

    I guess I'm lost
    I paid the handsome cost
    The thing that hurt the most
    Was that I wasn't lost


    Speaking to iHeartRadio's 103.5 KTU hosts Cubby and Christine, Madonna admitted the lyric sounds like a nonsense "riddle." The singer explained she is talking about how she used to beat herself up over the criticism of naysayers. Madonna added that it hurts her to think "I wasted all that time caring what people think."

    Madonna expanded on the lyric during an interview with Mojo: "I'm saying that I'd been told I was lost, that I was confused and I didn't really know what I was talking about. I paid for the things I said and did and spoke out against or fought for, and I listened to too many people telling me that I was wrong or that I should be quiet, that should go away or that I didn't know what I was talking about, or that I was making the wrong decisions. Too many voices of too many people convincing me that was 'lost'. And then I realized I wasn't. So that hurt because I realized I had wasted so much energy beating up on myself for no reason when I should have just listened to my voice and believed in myself."

    The Queen of Pop added that it was a slow-dawning realization, which took her many years to grasp.
  • Madam X was written by Madonna after she moved to Lisbon, Portugal; the relocation was because of her son David being signed by the city's football team.

    "Extreme Occident" was the second song that Madonna wrote for Madame X. It is influenced by morna, the national music of the Portuguese-speaking island country of Cape Verde. Madonna told Cubby and Christine its sound is "indicative and reflective" of her time in Lisbon.

Comments

Be the first to comment...

Editor's Picks

Amy Lee of Evanescence

Amy Lee of EvanescenceSongwriter Interviews

The Evanescence frontwoman on the songs that have shifted meaning and her foray into kids' music.

Emmylou Harris

Emmylou HarrisSongwriter Interviews

She thinks of herself as a "song interpreter," but back in the '80s another country star convinced Emmylou to take a crack at songwriting.

David Gray

David GraySongwriter Interviews

David Gray explains the significance of the word "Babylon," and talks about how songs are a form of active imagination, with lyrics that reveal what's inside us.

Dino Cazares of Fear Factory

Dino Cazares of Fear FactorySongwriter Interviews

The guitarist/songwriter explains how he came up with his signature sound, and deconstructs some classic Fear Factory songs.

Stan Ridgway

Stan RidgwaySongwriter Interviews

Go beyond the Wall of Voodoo with this cinematic songwriter.

Rob Thomas of Matchbox Twenty

Rob Thomas of Matchbox TwentySongwriter Interviews

Rob Thomas on his Social Distance Sessions, co-starring with a camel, and his friendship with Carlos Santana.